People give hope and trust into other people too much.
As I said before Trust takes years to build and only seconds to destroy.
People give trust initially to people they feel they should trust.. but as they get more experienced in life they will realize that it is always safer to let other earn their trust.. as trust is something that is too fragile to just give away. Cause if the careless break it, it hurts you more than them. Its like constantly handing your heart to strangers on the street.
Cause no matter how much you think you know someone ... you never really know them.
Everyone has sides of themselves they would NEVER show others. This also means you. Do you think that would make them except from that rule.
Everyone inherently is selfish... we are in certain ways.. I am selfish.. you are selfish.. we are all selfish.
We all want what makes ourselves feel good or happy. That is selfish to some degree. People would even punish themselves by allowing themselves to be drug through a bed a razor blade if they knew that they could be happy by the time it is all over.
People will eventually let you down. People will tell you what you want to hear. There have been times you told other what they wanted to hear. Why would they be different. I am not saying it happens all the time but depending on the situation and what the other person wants.. that would determine the degree.
The ONLY people you can really see as a true friend are ones that have nothing to gain from you.
If for any reason you are giving to them, supporting them constantly, giving them compliments, o r being the blunt of their jokes to make them feel better about themselves, they are not your friends.
Dependency is a sickness, dependency is a weakness and the doom of all who rely on it.
The only person in this world that is truly your friend is “yourself†please do not betray that one life long friend.. do not lie to yourself and do not undersell yourself.
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